![]() We brainstormed ways the main character could have acted to keep herself safe while at a party. For instance, when our mother-daughter book club read “Speak” by Laurie Halse Anderson, we were able to talk about date rape and how alcohol plays a role in it. When you read the same titles your daughter is reading, it gives you an entrée to talk about themes that appear in the pages-without the pressure of discussing personal details. It can also provide crucial information that may keep her safe and help her make informed decisions when peers engage in risky behavior. Talking can help your daughter learn about your own values while forming her own. ![]() There’s good reason to break through the barriers. ![]() You may also be worried about sharing your own past if she asks questions. Your daughter may be reluctant to bring these issues up because she’s too embarrassed or too afraid to reveal what she and her friends are doing, even if she has concerns. As your daughter grows, new issues sprout up, like resisting peer pressure, having a positive body image, eating disorders and dating. You both may find it awkward to bring up topics like dealing with mean kids, being a good friend, and handling conflict between the two of you. ![]() ![]() Even if you do find time, sitting down for “a talk” probably isn’t high on your daughter’s list. It’s easy for moms to get caught up in daily obligations and never get around to talking about important issues with their daughters. ![]()
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